Sometimes you don’t need a week at the beach or a month-long European adventure. Sometimes you just need to grab your suitcase, text your girlfriends, and disappear to another city for a few days.
A girls’ trip is the perfect excuse to reconnect with old friends, celebrate something special, or simply escape your everyday routine. And you don’t necessarily have to leave the country to make it memorable. Some of my favorite girls’ trip destinations are right here in the U.S., with good food, plenty to see, a little nightlife, and enough going on to keep everyone entertained.
From rooftop cocktails and incredible restaurants to museums, shopping, live music, and those late-night hotel-room conversations that somehow become one of the best parts of the trip, an urban getaway gives you plenty to do without requiring a complicated itinerary.
If you’re trying to keep the trip affordable, these tips for finding cheap travel accommodations can help you compare your options without automatically choosing the cheapest room.
So start the group chat. It’s time to plan a trip.
1. New York City, New York

Best for: The girlfriends who want a little bit of everything
New York City is one of those places where everyone in the group can want something completely different and somehow still end up happy. Art, food, theater, shopping, history, nightlife, parks—you could visit several times and still barely scratch the surface.
I’ve visited Central Park, the Metropolitan Museum of Art, walked across the Brooklyn Bridge, checked out the Empire State Building, and spent time at the World Trade Center Memorial. Each gives you a completely different side of the city, which is one of the things I love about New York.
Then there’s the entertainment. I saw Stranger Things on Broadway and attended a taping of The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon. Experiences like those are part of what makes NYC such a fun girlfriends’ getaway. You can turn an ordinary weekend into something you couldn’t really recreate back home.
And the food? I had some of the best pizza and cheesecake I’ve ever eaten. New York, I respect you for that alone.
Girlfriend getaway tip
Don’t try to conquer all of New York in one weekend. Pick a few neighborhoods and experiences everyone really wants to do and leave room for wandering, eating, and changing your plans.
You can’t see everything anyway. Clearly, you’ll just have to come back.
2. Los Angeles, California

Best for: Theme parks, entertainment and California sunshine
Los Angeles can be a great choice when your group wants something playful rather than a traditional sightseeing weekend.
For me, that meant Disneyland and Universal Studios.
And as a big Harry Potter fan, you can probably guess which part won. The Wizarding World of Harry Potter was the highlight of my trip. (Wassup, my fellow Ravenclaws?!)

Give me Hogwarts, Butterbeer and a wand and apparently I’m very easy to please.
I also made it to the beach, although California didn’t exactly cooperate with my plans. It was too cold to get into the water, which means that despite traveling all the way to the West Coast, I’m still waiting to actually touch the Pacific Ocean.
One day, Pacific. One day.
Girlfriend getaway tip
Los Angeles is enormous and attractions can be surprisingly far apart. Group your plans geographically instead of bouncing back and forth across the city.
Nobody wants the main memory from girls’ weekend to be sitting in LA traffic.
3. New Orleans, Louisiana
Best for: Food, music, nightlife and a trip with personality
New Orleans doesn’t feel like just another American city. That’s exactly why I think it works so well for a girlfriends’ getaway.
When I stopped there during my cross-country road trip, I packed quite a bit into a relatively short visit. There were beignets at Café Du Monde, shrimp and grits, dinner at Tito’s Ceviche & Pisco, and—because apparently I was committed to experiencing New Orleans properly—Hand Grenades on Bourbon Street. New Orleans is one of those cities where eating can legitimately become part of your sightseeing itinerary.
But don’t make the mistake of assuming the city begins and ends with Bourbon Street. The French Quarter, architecture, music, restaurants and overall personality of New Orleans give you plenty to experience outside the nightlife.
Girlfriend getaway tip
Leave some empty space in your itinerary here. Walk. Eat. Listen to music. Wander into somewhere you didn’t plan on visiting.
New Orleans is a good city for letting the trip happen a little bit.
4. Miami, Florida

Best for: Beach days, street art and nightlife
Miami solves a very important girls’ trip dilemma: Beach vacation or city getaway?
Why choose?
I’ve spent time at the beach, explored the murals around the art district, and experienced Miami’s nightlife at a couple of dance clubs.
I love street art and graffiti, so seeing the murals was one of those activities that fit me perfectly. Give me a neighborhood full of colorful walls and I’ll probably disappear with my camera for a while.
I also went to Emo Nite at Club Space, which is exactly the kind of random travel memory that ends up being more memorable than whatever carefully planned activity was supposed to happen.
And I have to give an honorable mention to Flanigan’s. The bar food? So good. Sometimes travel memories are historic landmarks. Sometimes they’re really good bar food. Both are valid.
Girlfriend getaway tip
Talk about what kind of Miami weekend everyone wants before you arrive. Beach lounging, art, restaurants and nightlife can absolutely coexist, but things go much smoother when everyone knows whether this is primarily a relaxation trip or a we’re-going-out-tonight trip.
5. Nashville, Tennessee

Best for: Birthdays, bachelorettes, live music and celebrating just about anything
Nashville has a special place in my heart, and of all the girls trip destinations on this list, it’s probably the one I’ve personally tested the most.
I’ve been multiple times because I have family there, but some of my favorite Nashville memories have come from celebrations: birthdays, bachelorette parties and even New Year’s Eve. So when I tell you Nashville works for a girlfriends’ getaway, this one has been thoroughly field-tested.
Live music is obviously a huge part of the experience. I’ve gotten to see Keith Urban, Chris Young and Kane Brown perform there, and there’s something about being in Nashville that makes a concert or night out feel even more fun.
It’s also one of those destinations that already seems to understand the assignment when a group of women arrives ready to celebrate.
Girlfriend getaway tip
Nashville is popular for group trips for a reason, but don’t feel like your entire weekend has to revolve around Broadway.
Enjoy the nightlife, absolutely. Then give yourselves time to experience some of the city beyond the busiest party areas too.
And if you’re celebrating a birthday or bachelorette? Nashville knows what to do with you.
6. San Francisco, California

Best for: Iconic sights, neighborhoods and girlfriends who don’t mind hills
San Francisco gave me some great memories. It also taught me something very important about myself: I was apparently not nearly as in shape as I thought I was. Those hills are disrespectful!
There are plenty of iconic sights to build a girlfriends’ weekend around. I’ve visited the Golden Gate Bridge, seen the Painted Ladies that every Full House fan recognizes, and tracked down the house used in Mrs. Doubtfire.
Basically, if a house appeared in a movie or television show from my childhood, apparently I needed to see it.
My friend and I also had some delicious drinks at a tiki bar and ate at MAC’D, a build-your-own macaroni and cheese spot (Sadly, the SF location has been permanently closed, but there is apparently another location in Portland, OR). I’m not even going to pretend customized mac and cheese isn’t exactly the kind of activity I want on vacation.
If San Francisco makes your shortlist, my 48 hours in San Francisco itinerary can help you plan a quick weekend in the city.
Girlfriend getaway tip
Bring comfortable shoes. Seriously. San Francisco is beautiful, but those hills do not care about your cute vacation outfit or your cardiovascular limitations.
Plan strategically, use public transportation when it makes sense, and save some energy for actually enjoying your evening.
How to Plan a Girls’ Trip Without Ruining the Friendship
The destination is only half the equation. Traveling with friends can be amazing but even the best girls’ trip destinations can’t save a vacation if everyone arrives with completely different expectations.
It can also reveal that your best friend requires precisely 94 minutes to get ready every morning while you require twelve. You learn things about people when you travel together.
Before booking anything, have a conversation about expectations. And if you’re trying to keep everyone organized without spending more money, a few of my favorite free travel apps can make planning, navigating, and splitting expenses easier.
Talk About Money First
Please do this.
You don’t need everyone’s bank statements, but you should have a general conversation about the budget before anyone books a flight. One person’s idea of an affordable hotel might be another person’s entire monthly grocery budget.
Talk about accommodations, transportation, restaurants, activities, shopping, nightlife and any planned splurges. Everyone should have a realistic idea of what the trip will cost before committing.
Money conversations can feel awkward. Money arguments during vacation feel considerably more awkward.
Decide What Everyone Actually Wants to Do
Some people travel to relax. Some people wake up at 6:00 a.m. with a clipboard. Know which people you’re traveling with.
Ask everyone to choose one or two things they really want to do and build the itinerary around those priorities. That way, everyone gets something they’re excited about without one person controlling the entire trip.
Don’t Schedule Every Minute
You do not need to spend every second together.
I’ll say it again: You do not need to spend every second together.
If one person wants to shop and another wants to visit a museum, split up for a couple of hours and meet for dinner. Everyone will survive. In fact, a little independence can make group travel considerably more enjoyable.
Choose Your Accommodation Carefully
For a girlfriend getaway, location can make a huge difference. Staying somewhere central may cost more, but it can simplify transportation and make it easier for everyone to come and go.
Think about the number of beds and bathrooms, neighborhood, transportation options, walking distance, safety and everyone’s budget.
And please pay attention to the bathroom situation. Four women. One bathroom. Dinner reservation at 7:00. You do the math.
Make Dinner Reservations When Necessary
Spontaneity is fun until six hungry people are standing on a sidewalk at 8:00 p.m. discovering every restaurant nearby has a two-hour wait.
If there’s somewhere the group really wants to eat, make a reservation when possible. Leave some meals spontaneous. Plan the important ones.
Take the Group Pictures
Someone volunteer. Bring a small tripod if that’s your thing. Ask another traveler. Use the timer. Whatever.
Just make sure you get pictures with everyone in them. It’s surprisingly easy to return from a group vacation with 700 pictures and realize the person who took most of them is barely visible in any.
And don’t obsess over getting the perfect shot. The blurry picture where everyone is laughing might eventually become your favorite.
The Best Part of a Girlfriends’ Getaway
The best girls’ trip destinations give you good restaurants, fun things to do, a cute hotel, great pictures and maybe a little nightlife. But the destination is only part of what makes the trip memorable. Years later, you probably won’t remember every restaurant or attraction.
You’ll remember laughing until your stomach hurt. Getting lost together. The inside jokes that make absolutely no sense to anyone else. Getting ready for dinner while music plays in the hotel room. The friend who packed enough clothes for a six-month expedition.
You’ll remember the ridiculous thing that happened on Day 2 that you’re all still talking about five years later. That’s the real reason to take the trip. Life gets busy. People move. Jobs change. Relationships change. Schedules become impossible. And suddenly the friends you once saw every week are people you’re trying to coordinate dinner with three months in advance.
Sometimes you need to put the trip on the calendar. So send the group text. Pick the city. Set the budget. Book the room and start planning your next urban getaway. Because there’s always a reason to postpone a trip.
Sometimes you just have to decide you’re going anyway.


















