There’s something special about a cross country road trip, especially when you have no idea what adventures are waiting along the way.
When you think of driving across the country, what comes to mind? Unforgettable landscapes? Epic playlists? Pit stops at the sketchiest gas stations along the way?
In my case, you could say all of the above. LOL.
It all started in September 2018 when a friend of mine, who had previously moved to San Francisco, decided to move back to Atlanta and asked if I could help her. Being the lovely friend that I am, I flew out to California, helped her pack up the Honda CR-V, and off we went.
Our mission? San Francisco to Atlanta– in four days, across thousands of miles and several states, in a Honda CR-V packed with everything we could fit inside.
What could possibly go wrong?
Well…
Before You Take a Cross-Country Road Trip…
Overall, the drive took about four days, with stops along the way to sleep, eat, stretch our legs, and occasionally remind ourselves why we thought driving across the entire country was a good idea.
I learned a few things very quickly.
Make Sure Your A/C Works
This deserves to be first. If any part of your road trip involves driving through the desert, please make sure you have working air conditioning.
We did not.
Yes. We drove across the desert. Without working A/C. Learn from our mistakes.
Plan Your Stops- But Don’t Overplan Them
Try to time your gas stops, bathroom breaks, and food stops so you aren’t constantly getting off the highway. Part of the fun of a road trip is actually being on the road.
Put on some music. Talk. Watch the scenery change. And appreciate just how enormous this country actually is.
Stop for the Pictures
Seriously. Stop for the pictures.
Years later, saying, “I drove across the country once” is cool. Being able to pull out photographs from the trip and remember exactly where you were? Even better. Don’t become so focused on reaching the next destination that you forget to enjoy everything between Point A and Point B.
Now, on to the stops—in order.
Arizona
Arizona was probably one of my favorite stops on the entire trip, even though our time there was very short. The scenery was phenomenal.
We came across these cool murals and couldn’t pass them without stopping for a picture. And then there was the desert itself. There are plenty of people who might look at the desert and say: “It’s just a bunch of rocks.”
But for me, it was something more. Those rocks represented a vastness I couldn’t even begin to comprehend in an extremely beautiful part of the country.
There’s something about looking across a landscape that seems to stretch forever that makes you realize just how tiny you are. Or maybe that’s just the Earth sign in me. (Taurus gang, what’s up?! lol)
After approximately 12½ hours of driving, we finally stopped in Tucson for the evening. At that point, sightseeing was over. It was time to sleep.
We rested up and prepared ourselves for the next stretch of the adventure.

New Mexico
New Mexico was less of a destination and more of a:
WE NEED GAS, SNACKS AND A BATHROOM.
We didn’t get to see very much of the state. However, the gas station where we stopped had a souvenir shop filled with Southwestern-style gifts, including Native American-inspired items and sugar skull décor.
I found a really cute sugar skull keychain and bought it as my little souvenir from New Mexico. Unfortunately, a few years later, the clasp broke. The keychain disappeared. Gone forever. And…that was New Mexico in a nutshell. Haha.
Sometimes your road-trip memories aren’t exactly profound.
San Antonio, Texas
Remember the Alamo!
After another approximately eight-hour drive, we arrived in San Antonio, Texas. As someone who enjoys history, I was really excited to finally see the Alamo. This was one of those famous American landmarks I’d heard about forever, so naturally I expected to be impressed when I finally saw it in person. And then…we got there. I have to say: I was a bit underwhelmed haha
Don’t get me wrong. The idea that this historic building is still standing in the middle of a modern city is pretty cool. But that was also part of the problem for me. With all of the modern architecture surrounding it, this little piece of history seemed strangely out of place.
Look a few feet to your left and — Hello, Starbucks! Disappointing to say the least. Unless you’re a coffee addict. In that case: Hooray for you! lol
Would I tell someone interested in American history not to visit? No. Part of traveling is seeing these places yourself and forming your own opinion. The Alamo simply wasn’t the highlight of my trip. And that’s okay. Not every famous attraction has to blow you away.
Because our next stop? That one definitely made up for it.

New Orleans, Louisiana
The highlight of the entire road trip:
NEW ORLEANS!
This was my first time in NOLA, and unfortunately, we only had one night. But somehow it still became the most memorable part of the trip.
Well…most of it was memorable. 😂

Between the liveliness of Bourbon Street, the music, and THE FOOD, New Orleans immediately felt completely different from anywhere else we’d stopped. Even after such a short visit, I understood why people love this city. New Orleans is definitely somewhere I think everyone should experience at least once.
First Stop: Café Du Monde
Of course, no first trip to New Orleans is complete without a stop at Café Du Monde. And yes, I got the beignets. They’re absolutely worth it. Expect powdered sugar everywhere. Also, keep in mind it’s cash only. If you visit New Orleans and somehow leave without eating a beignet, I’m not saying you did the trip wrong…
But I’m also not NOT saying that.



Tito’s Ceviche & Pisco
Another delicious spot I tried was Tito’s Ceviche & Pisco. If you enjoy Peruvian food, definitely check it out. The food was delicious, and the service was spectacular. *Chef’s kiss*
Shrimp & Grits for Breakfast
If you want something a little more savory than pastries for breakfast, might I suggest: shrimp & grits?
Unfortunately, I cannot remember the name of the restaurant where I had them. What I do remember? The flavor was immaculate. Luckily, shrimp and grits are pretty easy to find throughout the South, so you’ll have plenty of opportunities to try them.

And then…there was Bourbon Street.
The Hand Grenade Incident
If you really want a good time, head down to Bourbon Street. And apparently, 2018 Brittney would also tell you to grab a Hand Grenade. You’ll understand why it’s called that after you finish it. Just maybe figure out who’s driving the next morning before you do. That would have been useful information for us.
Because guess whose turn it was to start the seven-hour drive back to Atlanta the next morning?
Mine.
And guess who was absolutely not starting that seven-hour drive?
Also me. LOL
It just wasn’t meant to be. After a very necessary long nap, I eventually got myself together and was able to finish the last four hours home. Road-trip lesson learned: designate tomorrow morning’s driver before tonight’s Bourbon Street adventures.

Mississippi & Alabama
What happened in Mississippi and Alabama?
Well…we drove. And drove. And drove. That’s basically it. Here’s a collage of all the state signs we passed.
The end. Haha.

Looking Back on the Road Trip
When I originally took this trip in 2018, I don’t think I realized how much I’d enjoy looking back on the little moments years later.It wasn’t a perfectly planned road trip. We didn’t spend days exploring every state. Some places were destinations; others were basically bathroom breaks.
Our air conditioning didn’t work. I lost my New Mexico keychain. The Alamo didn’t exactly live up to my expectations. And New Orleans temporarily defeated the next morning’s DD. But that’s exactly why I remember the trip.
Travel doesn’t always have to be perfectly curated. Sometimes the best stories come from the things that didn’t go according to plan.
The random gas station. The mural you weren’t expecting. The scenery outside the window. The meal you still remember even though you’ve forgotten the restaurant’s name. The inside jokes. The ridiculous decisions. And the pictures you stopped to take along the way.
If you’ve ever thought about taking a cross-country road trip, I’d say:
Do it.
Plan enough to keep yourself safe and comfortable. Make sure the car is ready. Give yourself enough time. Create an amazing playlist. Bring snacks.
And please…
Check the A/C.
But don’t plan away all the spontaneity. Sometimes you need to get in the car and see where the road takes you. Years later, you might discover that the best souvenir wasn’t something you bought along the way. It was the story you came home with.
Road Trip Lessons I Learned Along the Way
If you’re planning your own cross-country adventure, here are the biggest lessons I’d take from mine:
- Get your car inspected first. Tires, fluids, brakes, battery- and, as I learned personally, the A/C.
- Don’t underestimate driving distances. Twelve hours in a car feels very different from twelve hours on paper.
- Share the driving. Decide who’s driving each stretch before everyone gets exhausted.
- Leave room for spontaneous stops. Not every memorable place will be on your itinerary.
- Bring water and snacks. Especially when driving long stretches between cities.
- Save your route offline. Cell service isn’t guaranteed everywhere.
- Take pictures. Even of the random stuff.
- Don’t drink if you’re driving. If nightlife is part of a stop, decide ahead of time who will be driving the next day.
- Don’t rush every state. If I repeated this trip today, I’d give myself more time.
- Enjoy the drive. The road itself is part of the destination.
Would I Do It Again?
Absolutely! But next time? I’m checking the air conditioning first.





























