Author: Brittney Johnson

  • Making Memories: Stories from a Cross-Country Road Trip

    Making Memories: Stories from a Cross-Country Road Trip

    There’s something special about a cross country road trip, especially when you have no idea what adventures are waiting along the way.

    When you think of driving across the country, what comes to mind? Unforgettable landscapes? Epic playlists? Pit stops at the sketchiest gas stations along the way?

    In my case, you could say all of the above. LOL.

    It all started in September 2018 when a friend of mine, who had previously moved to San Francisco, decided to move back to Atlanta and asked if I could help her. Being the lovely friend that I am, I flew out to California, helped her pack up the Honda CR-V, and off we went.

    Our mission? San Francisco to Atlanta– in four days, across thousands of miles and several states, in a Honda CR-V packed with everything we could fit inside.

    What could possibly go wrong?

    Well…

    Before You Take a Cross-Country Road Trip…

    Overall, the drive took about four days, with stops along the way to sleep, eat, stretch our legs, and occasionally remind ourselves why we thought driving across the entire country was a good idea.

    I learned a few things very quickly.

    Make Sure Your A/C Works

    This deserves to be first. If any part of your road trip involves driving through the desert, please make sure you have working air conditioning.

    We did not.

    Yes. We drove across the desert. Without working A/C. Learn from our mistakes.

    Plan Your Stops- But Don’t Overplan Them

    Try to time your gas stops, bathroom breaks, and food stops so you aren’t constantly getting off the highway. Part of the fun of a road trip is actually being on the road.

    Put on some music. Talk. Watch the scenery change. And appreciate just how enormous this country actually is.

    Stop for the Pictures

    Seriously. Stop for the pictures.

    Years later, saying, “I drove across the country once” is cool. Being able to pull out photographs from the trip and remember exactly where you were? Even better. Don’t become so focused on reaching the next destination that you forget to enjoy everything between Point A and Point B.

    Now, on to the stops—in order.

    Arizona

    Arizona was probably one of my favorite stops on the entire trip, even though our time there was very short. The scenery was phenomenal.

    We came across these cool murals and couldn’t pass them without stopping for a picture. And then there was the desert itself. There are plenty of people who might look at the desert and say: “It’s just a bunch of rocks.”

    But for me, it was something more. Those rocks represented a vastness I couldn’t even begin to comprehend in an extremely beautiful part of the country.

    There’s something about looking across a landscape that seems to stretch forever that makes you realize just how tiny you are. Or maybe that’s just the Earth sign in me. (Taurus gang, what’s up?! lol)

    After approximately 12½ hours of driving, we finally stopped in Tucson for the evening. At that point, sightseeing was over. It was time to sleep.

    We rested up and prepared ourselves for the next stretch of the adventure.

    Cross country road trip stop at the Greetings from Tucson mural in Arizona

    New Mexico

    New Mexico was less of a destination and more of a:

    WE NEED GAS, SNACKS AND A BATHROOM.

    We didn’t get to see very much of the state. However, the gas station where we stopped had a souvenir shop filled with Southwestern-style gifts, including Native American-inspired items and sugar skull décor.

    I found a really cute sugar skull keychain and bought it as my little souvenir from New Mexico. Unfortunately, a few years later, the clasp broke. The keychain disappeared. Gone forever. And…that was New Mexico in a nutshell. Haha.

    Sometimes your road-trip memories aren’t exactly profound.

    San Antonio, Texas

    Remember the Alamo!

    After another approximately eight-hour drive, we arrived in San Antonio, Texas. As someone who enjoys history, I was really excited to finally see the Alamo. This was one of those famous American landmarks I’d heard about forever, so naturally I expected to be impressed when I finally saw it in person. And then…we got there. I have to say: I was a bit underwhelmed haha

    Don’t get me wrong. The idea that this historic building is still standing in the middle of a modern city is pretty cool. But that was also part of the problem for me. With all of the modern architecture surrounding it, this little piece of history seemed strangely out of place.

    Look a few feet to your left and — Hello, Starbucks! Disappointing to say the least. Unless you’re a coffee addict. In that case: Hooray for you! lol

    Would I tell someone interested in American history not to visit? No. Part of traveling is seeing these places yourself and forming your own opinion. The Alamo simply wasn’t the highlight of my trip. And that’s okay. Not every famous attraction has to blow you away.

    Because our next stop? That one definitely made up for it.

    New Orleans, Louisiana

    The highlight of the entire road trip:

    NEW ORLEANS!

    This was my first time in NOLA, and unfortunately, we only had one night. But somehow it still became the most memorable part of the trip.

    Well…most of it was memorable. 😂

    Between the liveliness of Bourbon Street, the music, and THE FOOD, New Orleans immediately felt completely different from anywhere else we’d stopped. Even after such a short visit, I understood why people love this city. New Orleans is definitely somewhere I think everyone should experience at least once.

    First Stop: Café Du Monde

    Of course, no first trip to New Orleans is complete without a stop at Café Du Monde. And yes, I got the beignets. They’re absolutely worth it. Expect powdered sugar everywhere. Also, keep in mind it’s cash only. If you visit New Orleans and somehow leave without eating a beignet, I’m not saying you did the trip wrong…

    But I’m also not NOT saying that.

    Tito’s Ceviche & Pisco

    Another delicious spot I tried was Tito’s Ceviche & Pisco. If you enjoy Peruvian food, definitely check it out. The food was delicious, and the service was spectacular. *Chef’s kiss*

    Shrimp & Grits for Breakfast

    If you want something a little more savory than pastries for breakfast, might I suggest: shrimp & grits?

    Unfortunately, I cannot remember the name of the restaurant where I had them. What I do remember? The flavor was immaculate. Luckily, shrimp and grits are pretty easy to find throughout the South, so you’ll have plenty of opportunities to try them.

    And then…there was Bourbon Street.

    The Hand Grenade Incident

    If you really want a good time, head down to Bourbon Street. And apparently, 2018 Brittney would also tell you to grab a Hand Grenade. You’ll understand why it’s called that after you finish it. Just maybe figure out who’s driving the next morning before you do. That would have been useful information for us.

    Because guess whose turn it was to start the seven-hour drive back to Atlanta the next morning?

    Mine.

    And guess who was absolutely not starting that seven-hour drive?

    Also me. LOL

    It just wasn’t meant to be. After a very necessary long nap, I eventually got myself together and was able to finish the last four hours home. Road-trip lesson learned: designate tomorrow morning’s driver before tonight’s Bourbon Street adventures.

    Mississippi & Alabama

    What happened in Mississippi and Alabama?

    Well…we drove. And drove. And drove. That’s basically it. Here’s a collage of all the state signs we passed.

    The end. Haha.

    Looking Back on the Road Trip

    When I originally took this trip in 2018, I don’t think I realized how much I’d enjoy looking back on the little moments years later.It wasn’t a perfectly planned road trip. We didn’t spend days exploring every state. Some places were destinations; others were basically bathroom breaks.

    Our air conditioning didn’t work. I lost my New Mexico keychain. The Alamo didn’t exactly live up to my expectations. And New Orleans temporarily defeated the next morning’s DD. But that’s exactly why I remember the trip.

    Travel doesn’t always have to be perfectly curated. Sometimes the best stories come from the things that didn’t go according to plan.

    The random gas station. The mural you weren’t expecting. The scenery outside the window. The meal you still remember even though you’ve forgotten the restaurant’s name. The inside jokes. The ridiculous decisions. And the pictures you stopped to take along the way.

    If you’ve ever thought about taking a cross-country road trip, I’d say:

    Do it.

    Plan enough to keep yourself safe and comfortable. Make sure the car is ready. Give yourself enough time. Create an amazing playlist. Bring snacks.

    And please…

    Check the A/C.

    But don’t plan away all the spontaneity. Sometimes you need to get in the car and see where the road takes you. Years later, you might discover that the best souvenir wasn’t something you bought along the way. It was the story you came home with.

    Road Trip Lessons I Learned Along the Way

    If you’re planning your own cross-country adventure, here are the biggest lessons I’d take from mine:

    • Get your car inspected first. Tires, fluids, brakes, battery- and, as I learned personally, the A/C.
    • Don’t underestimate driving distances. Twelve hours in a car feels very different from twelve hours on paper.
    • Share the driving. Decide who’s driving each stretch before everyone gets exhausted.
    • Leave room for spontaneous stops. Not every memorable place will be on your itinerary.
    • Bring water and snacks. Especially when driving long stretches between cities.
    • Save your route offline. Cell service isn’t guaranteed everywhere.
    • Take pictures. Even of the random stuff.
    • Don’t drink if you’re driving. If nightlife is part of a stop, decide ahead of time who will be driving the next day.
    • Don’t rush every state. If I repeated this trip today, I’d give myself more time.
    • Enjoy the drive. The road itself is part of the destination.

    Would I Do It Again?

    Absolutely! But next time? I’m checking the air conditioning first.

  • Experience the Magic of Guatemala: 10 Tips for Your Visit

    Experience the Magic of Guatemala: 10 Tips for Your Visit

    Guatemala holds a special place in my travel story, so these Guatemala travel tips come from a trip I’ll never forget. It was the destination of my first solo international trip, which I took when I was 22 years old. I was nervous before I left, but taking that trip ended up being one of the best decisions I could have made.

    And once you experience Guatemala, it’s easy to understand why the country leaves such an impression.

    Guatemala is beautiful, colorful, culturally rich, and full of contrasts. You’ll find volcanoes rising above the landscape, cobblestone streets and colonial architecture in Antigua, ancient Maya sites surrounded by jungle, colorful markets, incredible food, and communities preserving traditions that stretch back generations.

    If Guatemala is on your travel list, a little preparation can make a big difference. Here are 10 things to know before visiting Guatemala, including a few lessons I’d take with me if I were planning the trip again today.

    Guatemala travel tips – volcano view from Lake Atitlán

    Guatemala Travel Tips to Know Before You Go

    1. Learn Some Spanish

    You don’t need to become fluent in Spanish before visiting Guatemala. But learning a little? Absolutely worth it!

    While you may encounter English speakers in tourism-oriented businesses, you shouldn’t assume everyone you meet will speak English. Knowing some basic Spanish can make everyday situations much easier.

    Start with phrases like:

    • Hola — Hello
    • Buenos días — Good morning
    • Por favor — Please
    • Gracias —Thank you
    • ¿Cuánto cuesta? — How much does it cost?
    • ¿Dónde está…? — Where is…?
    • No entiendo — I don’t understand.
    • ¿Habla inglés? — Do you speak English?

    Even if your pronunciation isn’t perfect, making an effort can make interactions much easier and more meaningful. Translation apps can help fill the gaps too. Just remember to download Spanish for offline use before your trip.


    2. Pack for Guatemala’s Different Climates

    One mistake you don’t want to make is assuming Central America = hot all the time.

    Guatemala’s weather varies considerably depending on where you are and the elevation. You could experience warm tropical weather in one part of your trip and much cooler temperatures in the highlands.

    So pack layers. Lightweight clothing is useful during warmer days, but bring something warmer for higher elevations and cooler mornings and evenings.

    And if you’re visiting during the rainy season? Bring rain gear.

    Fair warning from my original trip: the streets CAN flood during heavy rains. You may find yourself walking through what feels like a mini-river. This is not the moment for your cutest shoes. Bring footwear that can handle getting wet.


    3. Be Careful About Drinking Water

    Staying hydrated is important when traveling, particularly when you’re dealing with heat, elevation, hiking, and long days of sightseeing. But you also need to think about where your water is coming from.

    Don’t automatically assume tap water is safe for you to drink. Use properly treated, filtered, or sealed bottled water when appropriate, and follow current local and health guidance during your trip.

    A reusable bottle can still be useful, just make sure you’re filling it from a source that’s safe for drinking. This becomes especially important if you’re planning something physically demanding, like hiking one of Guatemala’s volcanoes.

    Getting dehydrated on vacation? Zero stars. Would not recommend.


    4. Try Guatemalan Food

    Food is one of my favorite ways to experience a destination, and Guatemala gives you plenty to explore.

    You’ll find dishes and ingredients influenced by Guatemala’s Indigenous Maya heritage, Spanish colonial history, geography, and regional traditions. Depending on where you travel, look for foods such as:

    • Tamales
    • Pepián
    • Kak’ik
    • Chiles rellenos
    • Tostadas
    • Jocón
    • And plenty of tortillas.

    And don’t just eat at restaurants designed for tourists. Visit markets where appropriate, try local cafés, and ask people what they recommend.

    If you see something you’ve never eaten before? Ask what it is. Then maybe try it! That’s part of traveling.


    5. Spend Time in Antigua

    If you’re planning your first trip to Guatemala, Antigua deserves serious consideration.

    Cobblestone streets. Colorful buildings. Historic churches. Volcano views. Cafés. Restaurants. Markets. There’s a reason Antigua is one of the country’s best-known destinations. But it isn’t simply pretty.

    Antigua was Guatemala’s colonial capital before devastating earthquakes led authorities to move the capital to present-day Guatemala City. Today, the historic city is recognized as a UNESCO World Heritage Site.

    Give yourself time to wander instead of racing from attraction to attraction. Some destinations are best experienced with a checklist. Antigua is one of those places where simply walking around can be part of the experience.

    *Solo traveler tip*

    Cobblestones and cute-but-impractical shoes are enemies. Wear comfortable footwear. Your ankles will thank you.


    6. Experience Tikal

    If ancient history fascinates you, put Tikal National Park on your Guatemala list.

    Located in the Petén region of northern Guatemala, Tikal preserves the remains of one of the most important cities of the ancient Maya civilization. And the setting makes it even more incredible.

    You’re not simply looking at archaeological ruins surrounded by a modern city. You’re experiencing monumental structures rising from the tropical forest.

    Tikal is also a UNESCO World Heritage Site, recognized for both its cultural and natural significance. This is the kind of destination where you want enough time to appreciate where you actually are.

    Look around. Listen. Imagine what this place looked like centuries ago and take the pictures.


    7. Consider a Volcano Adventure—But Know What You’re Signing Up For

    Guatemala’s volcanoes create some of the country’s most dramatic landscapes. Two names you’ll frequently encounter when researching volcano experiences are Pacaya and Acatenango.

    But please don’t treat a volcano hike like an ordinary afternoon walk. Research the route and current volcanic conditions, understand the elevation, check the weather, choose reputable guides/operators where appropriate, bring suitable clothing and footwear, and be realistic about your fitness level. Check current official information before setting out.

    Acatenango in particular can be physically demanding. If a strenuous overnight hike isn’t your idea of vacation, that’s completely fine. You do not need to exhaust yourself to prove you experienced Guatemala correctly.


    8. Take Safety Seriously

    This is the section I changed most significantly from my original 2023 article. When I first wrote this post, I described most tourist areas as safe while recommending basic precautions. For a 2026 update, I wouldn’t make that blanket statement.

    Conditions change, sometimes significantly, and safety can vary by location. Before traveling, check your government’s current travel advisory for Guatemala and pay attention to guidance for the specific departments, cities, and transportation routes you’re considering. Then make decisions based on current information.

    As a solo female traveler, I’d also recommend practical habits such as:

    • Research your accommodation and neighborhood.
    • Plan how you’ll get back at night.
    • Avoid displaying expensive belongings unnecessarily.
    • Use reputable transportation.
    • Keep your phone charged.
    • Share your basic itinerary with someone you trust.
    • Avoid walking alone in unfamiliar areas at night when current local guidance advises against it.
    • Pay attention to your surroundings.

    And remember: being prepared doesn’t mean spending your entire vacation afraid. The goal is to make informed decisions so you can focus on actually enjoying your trip.


    9. Support Local and Indigenous Communities Thoughtfully

    One of Guatemala’s greatest cultural treasures is its living Indigenous heritage. Guatemala isn’t simply a place where Maya civilization existed centuries ago. Maya communities and cultures are very much part of present-day Guatemala.

    When you’re shopping for souvenirs, consider purchasing textiles, artwork, handicrafts, and other goods directly from local artisans and cooperatives when possible.

    Ask before photographing people, particularly in Indigenous communities and markets. Don’t treat traditional clothing or ceremonies as props for social media. Learn what you’re looking at, and ask respectful questions when appropriate.

    Remember that you’re entering someone’s community, not a theme park created for visitors.

    Travel becomes much more meaningful when you’re curious about the people who actually live in the destination.


    10. Respect the Culture

    This was one of my original tips, and I’d absolutely keep it. You’re the visitor. Take some time before your trip to understand cultural expectations around:

    • Clothing
    • Religious sites
    • Photography
    • Greetings
    • Tipping
    • Markets
    • Personal space
    • Local traditions

    What’s considered perfectly normal at home may not be interpreted the same way somewhere else. You don’t have to understand every aspect of Guatemalan culture before arriving. You should arrive willing to learn. That’s one of the reasons we travel in the first place.


    Bonus: Don’t Try to See Everything

    Here’s one piece of advice I’d add to the article today: Slow down.

    Guatemala has much more to offer than you can realistically experience on a rushed trip: Antigua, Lake Atitlán, Tikal, volcanoes, markets, Guatemala City, small towns, archaeological sites, highlands, rainforest.

    Trying to cram everything into a few days can leave you spending more time getting from one destination to another than actually experiencing them.

    Choose the places that matter most to you. Stay a little longer. Walk around. Talk to people. Eat something you’ve never tried. Give yourself enough time to experience the destination instead of simply collecting photographs proving you were there.


    Guatemala Changed the Way I Saw Solo Travel

    When I look back at Guatemala, I don’t only think about the destination. I think about the fact that I went. At 22, I was nervous about taking my first solo trip abroad. I could have let that nervousness make the decision for me. Instead, I researched the destination, prepared myself, and got on the plane.

    And that decision changed the way I thought about travel.

    It showed me that being nervous doesn’t automatically mean you’re making the wrong decision. Sometimes it means you’re doing something you’ve never done before. Guatemala gave me beautiful scenery, a different culture, new experiences, and memories I’ll always have. But it also gave me something I didn’t know I was looking for:

    Confidence.

    That first trip made the next adventure seem possible. And then the next. And the next. That’s part of the magic of travel. Sometimes you leave home expecting to discover another country. But somewhere along the way, you discover something about yourself too.

    If Guatemala is calling you, do your research. Check current conditions. Prepare carefully. Learn some Spanish. Try the food. Respect the culture. Keep an open mind. And when the moment comes?

    Go experience it for yourself!

  • Madrid Unscripted: My Solo Adventure in Spain’s Capital

    Madrid Unscripted: My Solo Adventure in Spain’s Capital

    My first trip to Spain took me to Granada, but a few years later, I found myself back in the country—this time in Madrid. And Madrid gave me a completely different version of Spain.

    Granada had felt intimate, historic, and almost magical. Madrid was bigger, busier, louder, and full of energy. There were rooftop views, a professional photoshoot, flamenco, late nights, and one very confusing encounter with Madrid’s public transportation system.

    Basically, Madrid kept me on my toes.

    If you’re planning a Madrid solo travel adventure, here’s what stood out from my trip and why Spain’s capital is a city I’d happily explore again.

    Accidentally Staying Near the Santiago Bernabéu

    Sometimes you carefully research the neighborhood you’re staying in…and sometimes you book an Airbnb and discover later that you’re staying near one of the most famous football stadiums in the world. Oops!

    My Airbnb was close to Santiago Bernabéu Stadium, home of Real Madrid. I hadn’t intentionally chosen the area because of the stadium, and at first it didn’t really affect my plans.

    Until game day.

    I was trying to get around the city and couldn’t understand why the bus I was waiting for wasn’t showing up like I expected. I watched my phone as the arrival times kept changing, and still no bus. Eventually, an older gentleman explained what was going on. There was a Real Madrid match. Suddenly, everything made a lot more sense. LOL

    It became one of those little travel moments that reminds you that a city isn’t operating around your itinerary. Madrid had plans of its own that day.

    Today, Santiago Bernabéu is served by Metro Line 10 as well as numerous bus routes, and Madrid’s tourism office notes that stadium operations change on match days.

    Travel Britten Tip: If you’re staying near a major stadium or event venue, check the local event calendar before heading out. Even if you’re not attending, a big event can affect how you get around.

    Turning Madrid Into My Own Photoshoot

    One of my favorite things I did in Madrid was something I hadn’t really done on my previous trips: I booked a professional photoshoot through Airbnb Experiences.

    As a solo traveler, getting good pictures of yourself can be a struggle. You either become very comfortable with a tripod, master the timer on your phone, or hand your camera to a stranger and hope for the best.

    So having someone else take the pictures for once? Absolutely worth it.

    We shot around central Madrid, including Plaza Mayor and Plaza del Callao. Instead of rushing between landmarks trying to check things off a list, I got to slow down, walk around the city, and actually pay attention to my surroundings.

    Plaza Mayor was especially beautiful. It’s right in Madrid’s historic center and is one of those places where just walking through the square feels like part of the experience and because I was traveling alone, the photos became something else too: proof that you don’t need to wait for someone else to take the trip or to actually be in the pictures from it.

    Solo traveler photoshoot in Madrid Spain

    Finding Money Heist in Plaza del Callao

    One of the stops during my photoshoot was Plaza del Callao. If you’re a Money Heist (La Casa de Papel) fan, this one is fun.

    Callao was actually used as a filming location for the series. Madrid Film Office lists Plaza del Callao among the show’s official Madrid locations, and the square is where the famous scene involving thousands of €50 notes raining down was filmed.

    It was actually the photographer’s idea to check out this location! Even if you didn’t visit specifically because of a movie or television show, suddenly realizing, Wait…I’ve seen this before, gives the place another layer.

    Callao also sits right off Gran Vía, one of Madrid’s most recognizable streets, surrounded by shops, theaters, cinemas, restaurants, and some seriously impressive architecture.

    Solo traveler at Plaza del Callao in Madrid Spain

    Seeing Madrid From the Rooftops

    Madrid looks good from street level. But Madrid from a rooftop? Even better.

    I joined a rooftop bar crawl (also courtesy of Airbnb Experiences), which turned out to be such a fun way to experience the city. Instead of spending the entire evening in one place, we moved around, had drinks, met people, and got to see Madrid from above.

    For a solo traveler, activities like this can also solve one of the trickier parts of traveling alone: figuring out what to do at night.

    You can absolutely go to a bar alone, but sometimes it’s nice to have a built-in group. A walking tour, food tour, bar crawl, or other small-group experience gives you the chance to meet people without having to awkwardly walk up to strangers and announce, “Hello, I need vacation friends.”

    Although, to be fair, that might work too!

    Madrid solo travel with rooftop views across the city

    Experiencing Flamenco in Madrid

    One experience I knew I wanted in Spain was flamenco.

    In Madrid, I went to an Essential Flamenco performance at Tablao Torero, an intimate cave-live venue, and the setting made the whole experience even better. The acoustics, the music, the movement—it felt completely different from watching a performance on a large stage.

    Madrid has a long flamenco tradition, with performances ranging from larger theaters to smaller tablaos and intimate venues throughout the city.

    What I remember most wasn’t one particular song or dance. It was how powerful everything felt when you’re sitting close enough to hear the dancers’ feet hitting the floor. Some travel experiences are difficult to appreciate until you’re actually there.

    For me, flamenco was one of them.

    Flamenco performance during a trip to Madrid Spain

    Madrid at Night Was Half the Fun

    One thing Madrid made very clear: this is not a city that shuts down early.

    Between the rooftop crawl, flamenco, busy streets, and simply wandering around central Madrid, some of my favorite memories happened after the sightseeing portion of the day was technically over. That’s something I’ve learned to appreciate more about traveling. Not every memorable experience needs to have a ticket, monument, or famous landmark attached to it.

    Sometimes it’s just being out in a city you don’t live in, realizing it’s late, looking around and thinking: I’m really here. Madrid gave me quite a few of those moments.

    What I’d Know Before Visiting Madrid Solo

    If I were planning another solo trip to Madrid, I’d leave plenty of room between the things I had to do and the things I could discover once I got there.

    Central Madrid is particularly good for exploring on foot. Plaza Mayor, Puerta del Sol, Callao, and Gran Vía are all within the broader central area, making it easy to combine several sights without spending the entire day moving between opposite sides of the city. Madrid also has an extensive Metro system for longer distances.

    I’d also check whether any major football matches, festivals, demonstrations, or other large events are happening during the trip. My Bernabéu experience taught me that lesson. LOL

    For evenings, I wouldn’t automatically stay in simply because I was traveling alone. A group experience can be a great middle ground when you want to enjoy Madrid’s nightlife but don’t necessarily want to navigate it completely by yourself.

    And finally, I’d schedule less. Madrid has enough going on that you don’t need to manufacture every minute of your itinerary.

    Is Madrid Good for Solo Travel?

    Based on my experience, yes.

    What I particularly liked was having options. I could spend part of the day wandering around on my own, book an experience when I wanted company, sit somewhere and people-watch, take photos, go sightseeing, or join a group at night.

    That flexibility matters when you’re traveling solo.

    You don’t have to choose between spending the entire trip alone or attaching yourself to a tour group for five days. You can do both! Independence when you want it and company when you don’t.

    That’s one of the things I love most about solo travel in general.

    Granada Started It. Madrid Kept It Going.

    My first solo trip to Spain began in Granada, and that city will always have a special place in my travel memories.

    Madrid was different.

    There was no Alhambra overlooking the city or Sierra Nevada framing the background. Instead, Madrid gave me crowded plazas, rooftop views, flamenco, football-day confusion, professional photos, late nights, and another reminder that I genuinely enjoy figuring out a new city on my own.

    Granada was where I first fell for Spain. Madrid made me want to keep coming back.

    And as it turned out, I wasn’t finished with Spain yet…

  • Sun, Sangria, and Siestas: An Unforgettable Introduction to Spain

    Sun, Sangria, and Siestas: An Unforgettable Introduction to Spain

    Spain—a land of vibrant colors, captivating traditions, incredible food, and a rhythm of life that can make you wonder why you were ever in such a hurry in the first place.

    My introduction to Europe started in 2017 with my first solo trip to Spain: Granada. Years later, I returned to explore Madrid, and since then, Spain has become one of those destinations I seem to keep finding my way back to.

    There are still so many places I want to experience, but looking back at those first trips, I can see exactly why Spain made such an impression on me. There were palaces and mountains, beaches and flamenco, spontaneous nights out, incredible food, and a sangria that set the bar way too high.

    Granada: Where My Spain Story Began

    View of the Alhambra from the streets of Granada, Spain

    Granada will always be special to me because it was where I took my first solo trip to Spain.

    Located in Andalucía in southern Spain, Granada gave me a little bit of everything I hoped to experience: history, beautiful architecture, great food, nightlife, mountain views, and enough unexpected moments to make the trip memorable years later.

    And naturally, one of the first things I did was get a sangria.

    I went to La Bella y la Bestia, ordered one, and unknowingly made a terrible strategic decision: it was the best sangria I had during the entire trip. I should have saved it for the end!!! Everything afterward had to compete with that first glass, and nothing quite measured up. LOL

    The Alhambra Was Even Better in Person

    The Alhambra was one of the experiences I was most excited about in Granada, and seeing it in person did not disappoint.

    Walking through the Alhambra and the Nasrid Palaces, I was fascinated by the amount of detail in the architecture. Some of my favorite features were the intricate Arabic inscriptions and decorative patterns covering the walls.

    Intricate Islamic architecture inside the Alhambra on my first solo trip to Spain

    I’d learned about the centuries of Muslim rule in Spain, but standing inside a place where so much of that history was still physically surrounding me made it feel completely different from reading about it.

    Then there were the views.

    Granada itself is beautiful, but having the Sierra Nevada mountains rising behind the city makes the landscape even more dramatic. Spain may be famous for sunshine and Mediterranean beaches, but seeing snow-covered mountains from Granada was a reminder of just how varied the country really is.

    A Little Literature Along the Way

    Huerta de San Vicente Federico García Lorca house museum in Granada

    My Granada trip wasn’t all palaces, sangria, and food.

    I also visited Huerta de San Vicente, the former summer home of Federico García Lorca and his family that’s now a museum. I enjoy museums anyway, but this visit meant a little more because I’d learned about Lorca in school.

    There’s something satisfying about encountering a person, place, or piece of history in real life after first discovering it in a classroom years earlier. It’s one of my favorite things about traveling: suddenly something you’ve read about isn’t quite so distant anymore.

    A Beach Day in Almuñécar

    One of my favorite breaks from exploring Granada was taking a day trip with friends to Almuñécar on Spain’s Mediterranean coast.

    The change of scenery was perfect. One minute my trip was historic streets, palaces, and mountain views; the next it was blue water, sunshine, seafood, and a beach.

    I even tried swordfish for the first time. Verdict? Pretty good! But one of my favorite memories from the day had absolutely nothing to do with sightseeing or food.

    While my friends and I were sitting on the beach, a random dog walked over to us carrying a tennis ball. He dropped it in front of us and apparently decided that we were now responsible for entertaining him. LOL

    Friendly dog with a tennis ball on the beach in Almuñécar, Spain

    No introductions. No discussion. Just: Here is my ball. You know what to do. Naturally, we played with him.

    Sometimes the completely unplanned moments become the stories you remember most.

    Granada Also Gave Me One Very Unexpected Reunion

    Speaking of things I couldn’t have planned, I randomly ran into someone I knew from college while I was in Granada. Of all the places in the world.

    We ended up going to a dance club together, turning what could have been an ordinary night into another one of those travel memories that still makes me laugh at how unlikely it was.

    That’s something I’ve learned to appreciate about solo travel. You can make plans, build itineraries, book tours and research everything in advance, but you can never predict who you’re going to meet or what might happen once you actually get there.

    Granada taught me that pretty early.

    Returning to Spain: Madrid in 2023

    Traveler exploring Callao in Madrid, Spain

    Six years after that first trip to Granada, I found myself back in Spain but this time in Madrid. Madrid was a completely different experience.

    Granada had felt intimate, historic and relaxed. Madrid gave me big-city energy: busy streets, rooftop views, beautiful plazas, nightlife, performances and plenty to explore on foot.

    It also gave me a transportation mystery almost immediately. I had booked an Airbnb without realizing that I was staying near Real Madrid’s football stadium. One day I went to catch a bus…and waited for an extremely long time. No bus.

    Eventually, a sweet older gentleman came over to the bus stop and explained what was happening. It was game day. Apparently everyone knew this except me. LOL

    Travel has a wonderful way of reminding you that you are, in fact, not a local.

    Seeing Madrid Through a Camera

    One of my favorite things I did in Madrid was book a professional photoshoot through Airbnb Experiences.

    We moved around the city taking pictures at different locations, including Plaza Mayor and Plaza de Callao. As a Money Heist (La Casa de Papel) fan, I loved learning that Callao was also one of the show’s filming locations, specifically the famous scene where money rains down over Madrid.

    Instead of coming home with only quick phone pictures and selfies, I ended up with photographs that captured an entire day of exploring Madrid. It also gave me an excuse to slow down and pay attention to the city around me rather than racing from one attraction to another.

    And considering how many of those pictures I still love years later, I’d say that experience was money well spent.

    Rooftops, Flamenco and Madrid After Dark

    Madrid got even better once the sun started going down.

    I joined a rooftop bar crawl that gave me some incredible views over the city. There’s something about seeing a destination from above that completely changes your perspective on it.

    But the night ended with my favorite part: a flamenco performance in an intimate cave-like venue.

    Flamenco performance during a night out in Madrid, Spain

    The acoustics were incredible.

    With the singing, guitar, clapping and dancing bouncing around such a small space, you didn’t just hear the performance, you felt it.

    I’d seen flamenco before in videos and performances, but experiencing it in that setting was completely different. It’s one of those travel experiences where photos are nice, but they can’t really reproduce what it felt like to be sitting there.

    Spain Taught Me to Leave Room for the Unexpected

    Looking back, some of my favorite memories from Spain weren’t things I could have scheduled.

    I didn’t plan to meet a dog on a beach who demanded a game of fetch. I definitely didn’t plan to randomly run into a college friend in Granada. And I certainly didn’t book my Madrid Airbnb thinking, I’d love to accidentally disrupt my transportation plans with a Real Madrid match.

    But those stories are part of why I remember these trips so clearly.

    Of course, the major attractions matter. I’m glad I visited the Alhambra. I’m glad I explored Madrid. I’m glad I saw flamenco, visited museums, ate seafood and spent time along the Mediterranean.

    But travel gets a lot more interesting when you leave enough room for something unexpected to happen. If you’re planning your own trip, these free travel apps for solo travelers are some of my favorites for navigating, organizing reservations, and making travel a little easier.

    Sun, Sangria, and Siestas: My Introduction to Spain

    What started with my first solo trip to Spain in 2017 became the beginning of a much longer relationship with the country.

    I’ve returned to the country since then, and every trip has shown me something different. That’s probably what keeps pulling me back.

    Spain isn’t one experience. It’s watching the Sierra Nevada mountains rise behind Granada. It’s staring at Arabic calligraphy inside the Nasrid Palaces and the Alhambra. It’s drinking a sangria so good that you’ve accidentally ruined the rest of the trip’s sangria.

    It’s a beach day with friends and a dog you’ve never met. It’s discovering Madrid from a rooftop, hearing flamenco echo through a cave, and standing at a bus stop wondering why absolutely no buses are coming.

    Somewhere between the big landmarks and those tiny, ridiculous moments, Spain became more than somewhere I’d visited. It became somewhere I wanted to keep exploring.

    And I wasn’t done yet…

  • 13 Best Dog-Friendly Vacation Ideas for Your Next Trip

    13 Best Dog-Friendly Vacation Ideas for Your Next Trip

    Looking for dog-friendly vacation ideas? Dogs are part of the family, so it’s only natural that you’d want to share some of your travel adventures with your four-legged companions. Wondering what kind of vacation is best for the good boy or girl in your life?

    There are plenty of dog-friendly vacations to choose from, whether your pup is a pampered pooch who prefers a comfortable hotel bed or an adventurous dog who would happily spend the entire day exploring the outdoors.

    Because sometimes the best travel buddy has four legs, a wagging tail, and absolutely no interest in helping you plan the itinerary.

    13 Dog-Friendly Vacation Ideas to Try


    1. Take a Dog-Friendly Road Trip

    Dog riding in a car during a road trip

    Road trips are one of the easiest dog-friendly vacation options. You control the schedule, which means no worrying about airline restrictions or figuring out how your pup will handle a flight. Plus, you can stop whenever you need to. And if you’ve traveled with a dog before, you already know: You’ll probably need to stop.

    Pack everything your dog will need for the journey, including food, water, bowls, medication, waste bags, a leash or harness, bedding, and a few favorite toys. Keep plenty of water accessible instead of burying it underneath three suitcases in the trunk.

    Before you leave, map out some pet-friendly stops along the route where both of you can stretch your legs. The journey itself can become part of the vacation.


    2. Plan a Beach Getaway

    Dogs running on a beach for dog-friendly vacation ideas

    Does your dog lose their mind every time they see water? A dog-friendly beach vacation might be perfect. Imagine spending the morning walking along the shore, playing in the sand, and letting your pup enjoy a completely new environment.

    Just make sure the beach you’re visiting actually allows dogs. Some beaches welcome them everywhere, while others restrict dogs to particular areas, seasons, or hours. Leash requirements can also vary.

    Do a little research before you arrive so your relaxing beach day doesn’t begin with: “Wait…dogs aren’t allowed here?”

    Not exactly the vacation vibe we’re going for.


    3. Go Camping

    Dog resting in a camping van overlooking scenic view

    For outdoorsy dogs (and humans), camping is hard to beat.

    You’ll get fresh air, hiking opportunities, new scenery, and plenty of quality time together. Your dog gets approximately 10,000 exciting new smells. Everybody wins! LOL

    When choosing a campground, check its pet rules beforehand. Some campgrounds welcome dogs but have restrictions about where they’re allowed.

    You’ll also want to think about your dog’s personality. A dog who loves hiking and being outdoors may think camping is the greatest vacation ever invented. A dog accustomed to air conditioning, fluffy blankets, and room service? Maybe not.

    Know your travel companion.


    4. Book a Dog-Friendly Hotel Getaway

    Maybe camping isn’t your thing. That’s okay. You and your pup can enjoy something a little more luxurious instead.

    More hotels are welcoming pets, which makes a traditional city or weekend getaway much easier for dog owners. But pet-friendly doesn’t always mean free.

    Before booking, check for:

    • Pet fees
    • Weight restrictions
    • Breed restrictions
    • Limits on the number of pets
    • Rules about leaving dogs unattended
    • Designated pet areas

    It’s also worth looking at what’s nearby. A hotel that allows dogs is good. A hotel that allows dogs and has parks, walking trails, outdoor restaurants, or other pet-friendly attractions nearby is even better.

    Looking for ways to keep accommodation costs down? Check out How to Find Cheap Travel Accommodations.


    5. Visit a Destination With Great Dog Parks

    If your dog is happiest when running around and making new friends, consider planning your trip around a destination with excellent dog parks.

    A good dog park can give your pup an opportunity to exercise after spending hours in a car or hotel room. And, strangely enough, it can be a social opportunity for you too. Dog people talk to other dog people. It’s practically a universal law.

    Just make sure your dog is comfortable around unfamiliar animals and follow the park’s rules. Not every dog enjoys the dog-park experience, and that’s perfectly fine.


    6. Rent a Pet-Friendly Cabin

    Dog relaxing at a pet-friendly cabin

    Want something between camping and a hotel? Look for a dog-friendly cabin or vacation rental. A cabin can give you access to nature without requiring you to sleep on the ground.

    Depending on the property, you may also have more space than you’d get in a traditional hotel room. Some rentals even have fenced yards, which can be a major bonus when traveling with a dog.

    Read the pet policy carefully before booking. Again: Pet-friendly does not mean “anything goes.”


    7. Plan a Hiking Vacation

    Dog hiking on a scenic trail

    If both you and your dog love being active, build your vacation around hiking and outdoor adventures.

    Look for destinations with dog-friendly trails and choose routes appropriate for your dog’s age, breed, fitness level, and experience.

    Bring more water than you think you’ll need. Pay attention to the temperature. Check your dog regularly.

    And remember that your dog can’t tell you:

    “Hey, I think this eight-mile mountain hike may have been slightly ambitious.”

    It’s your responsibility to recognize when your pup needs a break!


    8. Explore a Dog-Friendly City

    You don’t necessarily have to escape into nature. Some cities are incredibly accommodating to dogs.

    Look for destinations with:

    • Walkable neighborhoods
    • Parks
    • Dog-friendly patios
    • Pet-friendly hotels
    • Outdoor attractions
    • Dog-friendly shops or businesses

    A city getaway can work particularly well if your dog is comfortable around people, traffic, noise, and unfamiliar environments.

    You can spend the morning exploring together, stop at a dog-friendly patio, visit a park, and then head back to your hotel to relax.


    9. Find Dog-Friendly Restaurants and Patios

    Traveling with your dog doesn’t mean every meal has to come from a drive-through.

    Research restaurants with dog-friendly outdoor seating before your trip. Save a few options on your phone so you’re not standing on a sidewalk with a hungry dog while frantically Googling: “Restaurants that allow dogs near me.” A little planning makes everything easier.

    And your dog will probably be perfectly happy lying underneath the table waiting for you to accidentally drop something.


    10. Consider Your Dog’s Personality

    Here’s probably the most important tip in this entire article: Plan the vacation for the dog you actually have. Not the dog you wish you had.

    Some dogs love:

    Road trips!
    People!
    Beaches!
    Hiking!
    New places!
    Other dogs!
    Everything is exciting!

    Other dogs become stressed the second their routine changes. Neither type of dog is better. Before planning a big adventure, think realistically about what your dog enjoys.

    If your pup hates car rides, a 12-hour road trip probably isn’t going to magically become their dream vacation. If your dog gets overwhelmed by crowds, a busy city center may not be the best choice.

    A dog-friendly vacation should actually be enjoyable for your dog.


    11. Pack a Dog Travel Bag

    Your dog needs a packing list too.

    Consider bringing:

    • Food
    • Treats
    • Water
    • Food and water bowls
    • Leash
    • Harness
    • Waste bags
    • Medication
    • Identification information
    • Vaccination or health documentation, if appropriate
    • Bedding or blanket
    • Favorite toy
    • Towels
    • Cleaning supplies

    Bring enough of your dog’s normal food for the trip rather than assuming you’ll easily find the exact same brand at your destination. Changing food unexpectedly while traveling?

    Let’s just say that’s a vacation adventure you probably don’t want.


    12. Make Safety Part of the Plan

    Before heading out, check the rules for your destination and make sure you’re prepared for your dog’s specific needs. The National Park Service also recommends checking individual park regulations because pets aren’t permitted on every trail or area.

    Also make sure your dog’s identification information is current. Keep your dog’s veterinary information accessible and research emergency veterinary services around your destination, particularly if you’ll be somewhere remote.

    Pay attention to weather conditions, hot pavement, wildlife, unfamiliar plants, and other environmental risks. And never leave your dog unattended in a hot vehicle.

    Travel should be fun. Keeping your four-legged companion safe is what allows it to stay that way.


    13. Don’t Overschedule Your Vacation

    Humans sometimes have a bad habit of turning vacations into endurance events.

    Dogs don’t need a 14-item itinerary.

    Leave time for:

    If your dog seems tired or overwhelmed, change the plan. The museum, restaurant, trail, or attraction will still exist tomorrow.


    The Best Dog-Friendly Vacation Is the One You Enjoy Together

    You don’t have to plan an elaborate cross-country adventure to make memories with your dog. Take a short road trip. Spend a weekend at the beach. Go camping. Rent a cabin. Explore a new city. Find a great dog park. Or book a pet-friendly hotel and spend a few days doing absolutely nothing together.

    Your dog probably doesn’t care whether the destination has five-star reviews. They care that you’re there too! And honestly? That’s a pretty good reminder for the rest of us.

    Sometimes the best part of traveling isn’t where you go. It’s who comes along for the ride.

    🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾

  • Overcoming Fear: Conquering Challenges as a Female Solo Traveler

    Overcoming Fear: Conquering Challenges as a Female Solo Traveler

    The first time you think seriously about traveling alone, your excitement may come with a long list of questions. Will I be safe? What if I get lost? What if I don’t speak the language? What if something goes wrong? What if I get lonely? Those fears are exactly why I wanted to share these female solo travel tips.

    And maybe the biggest one:

    Can I really do this by myself?

    Travel can be a transformative experience. It opens the door to new cultures, different perspectives, incredible experiences, and personal growth. For women, taking that first solo trip can feel especially empowering because it requires us to step outside our comfort zones and discover exactly what we’re capable of doing on our own.

    But let’s be clear about something: being a confident solo traveler doesn’t mean you’re never afraid. Fear is a completely natural response when you’re heading somewhere unfamiliar—especially for the first time.

    The goal isn’t to eliminate every fear before you leave. It’s learning how to prepare for the things you can control without allowing fear to make every decision for you.

    I learned that firsthand when I took my first solo international trip at 22 and it changed everything.

    Female Solo Travel Tips for Overcoming Fear

    Acknowledge the Fear, Then Embrace the Adventure

    Fear is part of being human. Pretending you aren’t nervous doesn’t make you more prepared. Acknowledging what you’re actually worried about does.

    As a woman planning a solo trip, your concerns might include:

    • Personal safety
    • Getting lost
    • Language barriers
    • Cultural differences
    • Navigating transportation
    • Eating alone
    • Meeting people
    • Getting sick abroad
    • Feeling lonely
    • Simply not knowing what to expect

    Instead of treating those fears as reasons you shouldn’t travel, turn them into questions you can answer.

    Worried about transportation? Research it. Worried about the language? Learn a few basic phrases and download a translation app. Worried about where you’re staying? Research the neighborhood and read recent reviews from other solo travelers.

    Worried you’ll feel lonely? Look into walking tours, classes, hostels, group excursions, and other ways to meet people.

    Fear becomes much more manageable when you turn: “What if?” into: “Here’s what I’ll do.”

    My First Solo Trip Abroad

    I was 22 years old when I took my first solo trip abroad. And admittedly? I was very nervous.

    But the more I thought about the trip, the more I realized something: if I didn’t go, I’d probably spend a lot more time wondering what would have happened if I had and I didn’t want that regret.

    So I started researching. I learned about the area where I’d be staying, researched the culture I’d be immersed in, thought about the people I’d encounter, and tried to understand what I should expect.

    That first solo international trip took me to Guatemala, and it turned out to be one of the best decisions I could have made. I haven’t looked back since!

    That’s one reason I think your first solo trip is so significant. It’s not necessarily because everything will go perfectly. It probably won’t. It’s because you return home knowing something you couldn’t fully prove to yourself before: I can do this!

    Female solo travel tips for building confidence and overcoming fear

    Preparation and Planning: The Key to Confidence

    There’s a big difference between being afraid of everything and being appropriately prepared. Preparation gave me confidence on my first trip, and it’s something I’d recommend to any woman traveling alone.

    Before you leave, learn about your destination. Research things like:

    • Local customs and cultural norms
    • Transportation
    • Neighborhoods
    • Accommodation
    • Common tourist scams
    • Currency and payment methods
    • Weather
    • Entry requirements
    • Emergency information
    • Basic phrases in the local language

    You don’t need to plan every second. In fact, I recommend that you don’t.

    Create enough structure that you know where you’re going and how the major pieces of your trip work, but leave room for spontaneity. Some of the best travel experiences happen because you weren’t following a schedule.

    Maybe you discover an interesting street or someone recommends a restaurant. You meet another traveler and decide to explore together or you stumble across a festival you didn’t know was happening. Your itinerary should make you feel prepared. It shouldn’t make you feel trapped.

    Trust Your Instincts

    Intuition can be an important tool when you’re traveling alone. If a situation makes you uncomfortable, you don’t need to ignore that feeling simply because you can’t explain exactly why you’re uncomfortable.

    Maybe it’s a person, a street, a driver, a bar, or an interaction. Whatever it is, you’re allowed to change your plans. Move somewhere more populated. Go inside a business. Change transportation when practical. Call someone. Ask hotel or restaurant staff for assistance. Or better yet, just leave. You don’t need to stay in an uncomfortable situation because you’re worried about appearing rude.

    At the same time, don’t let safety advice convince you that everyone you encounter is a potential threat. One of the greatest parts of traveling is interacting with people you otherwise never would have met. The goal is awareness, not paranoia.

    We come with a built-in BS meter, ladies. Listen to it! LOL

    Build Connections Along the Way

    One of the biggest misconceptions about solo travel is that you’re going to be alone for the entire trip. You don’t have to be!

    Some of the most rewarding parts of traveling alone can come from meeting people from completely different backgrounds— fellow travelers, locals, expats, people you meet on tours, people staying at your hostel, or people you happen to sit beside at dinner.

    Some interactions last ten minutes. Others turn into friendships. And because you aren’t traveling with a built-in companion, you may actually find yourself more willing to talk to people.

    Hostels Can Make Meeting People Easier

    Some of the best ways I’ve met people while traveling have come from staying in hostels. Hostels naturally put travelers in the same environment, and many offer common areas, activities, walking tours, dinners, pub crawls, or other social events.

    If the idea of sleeping in a large dorm room doesn’t appeal to you, don’t immediately dismiss hostels. Many offer private rooms, giving you your own space while still allowing you to participate in the social atmosphere.

    Apps such as Hostelworld have also introduced social features that can help travelers connect around their trips. Just use the same judgment you would with anyone you meet online.

    Meet new people in public spaces, don’t immediately give strangers detailed information about where you’re staying, and remember that you’re never obligated to continue hanging out with someone simply because you met them while traveling.

    Try Group Activities

    You can also travel independently without doing every activity independently.

    Some of my favorite options for solo travelers include:

    • Walking tours
    • Food tours
    • Cooking classes
    • Day trips
    • Language exchanges
    • Group hikes
    • Hostel activities
    • Small-group excursions

    These activities give you an easy way to meet people because you already have something in common: you’re all there to experience the destination and if you meet someone you click with? Great! Grab lunch afterward. Explore together. Exchange contact information.

    If you don’t? Also fine. You came alone. You’re perfectly capable of continuing alone. That’s the beauty of it.

    Learn to Enjoy Your Own Company

    This part doesn’t get discussed enough. Solo travel isn’t only about learning how to navigate airports or transportation. You also learn how to be alone without automatically feeling lonely.

    Eating dinner alone may feel awkward the first time. So might sitting at a bar alone, going to a museum alone, taking yourself somewhere nice, or standing in line without someone to talk to.

    Then you start realizing something: Nobody cares. Seriously.

    Everyone isn’t staring at you wondering why you’re alone. They’re busy living their own lives. Eventually, being alone stops feeling like something that needs to be explained. You start appreciating the freedom. Want to spend two hours in a bookstore? Do it. Want dessert before dinner? Nobody can stop you.

    Want to change the entire itinerary because you woke up and don’t feel like doing what you planned? Motion carried. Vote: 1–0. *bangs gavel*

    Celebrate the Small Wins

    One of my favorite things about solo travel is how ordinary accomplishments can suddenly feel enormous.

    You figured out the metro system or navigated the airport. You ordered something in another language. You found your hotel after getting lost. You ate alone at a restaurant or handled a problem without immediately calling someone else to fix it. You spent an entire day exploring somewhere unfamiliar.

    Individually, these things might not sound life-changing but together? They start changing the way you see yourself.

    Every challenge you overcome gives you evidence that you’re capable of handling the next one. That’s how confidence grows. Not because nothing goes wrong. Because something goes wrong and you realize:

    Oh! I handled that.

    Things Will Go Wrong

    They will. Eventually.

    You’ll miss a train. Get lost. Book something incorrectly. Encounter terrible weather. Forget something. Choose a restaurant you hate. Mispronounce something. Feel awkward. Have a lonely evening. Maybe even wonder why you decided to take the trip at all.

    None of that automatically means solo travel isn’t for you. A bad afternoon doesn’t equal a bad trip and a difficult trip doesn’t mean you failed.

    Travel teaches adaptability exactly because you can’t control everything. Sometimes ‘Plan B’ becomes the better story anyway.

    You Don’t Have to Prove Anything

    Solo travel isn’t a competition.

    You don’t earn extra points because you stayed in the cheapest hostel, traveled for six months, visited 37 countries, never felt lonely, or handled every problem without asking for help. You also don’t need to put yourself into uncomfortable situations to prove that you’re adventurous.

    Take the taxi. Book the private room. Call home. Leave the party early. Change hotels. Join a group tour. Spend the afternoon watching Netflix in your room if you’re exhausted. It’s your trip.

    Independence includes knowing when you need help.

    Start Small If You’re Nervous

    Your first solo adventure doesn’t need to begin with a one-way ticket to the other side of the world.

    Start with what feels manageable. Maybe take yourself to dinner or spend a day exploring your own city alone. Take a weekend trip somewhere nearby or visit somewhere you’ve been before. Try a domestic flight alone. Then expand your comfort zone.

    There’s no prize for choosing the most intimidating possible first destination. The objective is to build confidence, not test yourself unnecessarily.

    What Solo Travel Taught Me

    When I took that first international trip at 22, I knew I was going somewhere new. I didn’t realize I was also going to learn so much about myself.

    Solo travel has taught me that I can be nervous and still move forward. That I can solve problems and adapt. That I can enjoy my own company and that strangers can become friends. That getting lost isn’t always a disaster and that plans can change without ruining everything.

    But maybe most importantly: I don’t have to wait for someone else to be available before I experience my own life.

    Feel the Fear and Go Anyway

    Overcoming fear as a female solo traveler doesn’t mean becoming fearless. It means learning which fears require preparation, which require boundaries, and which are simply asking you to step outside your comfort zone.

    Research your destination and make a plan. Tell someone you trust where you’ll be. Prep your phone and know where you’re staying. Pay attention to your surroundings. Trust yourself. Then give yourself permission to actually enjoy the adventure.

    Because on the other side of all those “What if something goes wrong?” questions is another question worth asking: What if something goes right?

    What if you love it? What if you meet incredible people? What if you discover your favorite destination? What if you become more confident? What if that trip you’ve been afraid to take becomes one of the best decisions you’ve ever made?

    As a solo female traveler, you have the power to rewrite narratives, break stereotypes, and inspire others to pursue their dreams fearlessly. So, embrace the unknown, embark on your adventure, and let your journey shape you into the fearless, resilient woman you were meant to be!